I think in all honesty, I may be overthinking some of this. It's been pointed out to me after making this post - especially related to the terminology aspect, but also this - that I've been trying to make this archive a "safe space" for absolutely everyone, and while an uplifting space is the goal for sure, everyone has their own definition of safe and their own comfort levels and their own squicks (and their own opinions on sexuality and gender). There are inevitably going to be people who dislike the decisions I make no matter what they are (which is not an inherently bad thing, just a disagreement) and I have to go with what I feel is best for the site and for me as (presently) the only admin.
The overall point I'm trying to make is that yes, I think if I go into the specifics it will be tedious and also unnecessary. So thank you for the comment, I really appreciate what you have said.
Oof, yeah, I can see how you'd be overthinking, but as you say, there's not really a way to make a place safe for EVERYONE, and, yeah, some people are not gonna like things you do. It's the nature of making anything that you intend to let other people see or use. I think pretty much every platform I've ever used and every website I've ever hung out on has made some kind of decision I didn't like and ime the major dealbreakers are never little details, they're always, like, "they changed content policies overnight so that half my friends were suddenly in violation of the rules over skeleton porn" or "they enforced a content policy that existed only in a mod's head" or "Elon Musk bought the site." I think if you're not doing that stuff you're probably good.
(Although if you could con Elon Musk into paying Twitter money for a small fanfiction archive I don't even think I'd be mad. Bilk that man out of everything and get paid!)
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